If it is your first, second, third, breakup, or if you have had more, they never get any easier. And although they hurt and leave you feeling like you want to die, they can be a blessing in disguise. No one likes changes as much as they pretend. We like comfort zones. We know it helps to change but we have gotten used to the other way.

There are lots of ways to overcome a breakup but choosing the right one is not always easy. Some people move, thinking that distance will give them peace and they can start over. Some get stuck and do not know what to do. Others refuse to accept it and try to change the other person’s mind. Whatever your cure, try to remember that this difficult time will pass

Heartbreak reminds us that not all life’s situations can be solved. Even when the body heals, emotional scars can still exist. With each heartbreak, we end up deeply changed. After some periods of mourning if we grieve fully and face our sadness there will come a time where we may wish to recover.

Research explains why the pain of heartbreak isn’t just in the mind. Falling in love can feel intense and often leaves people giddy and euphoric. But cutting that connection can trigger a rush of negative emotions that can feel physically painful.

But don’t give up. God does much with broken things. It was with broken promises of promotions of advancement in retail management, my wife getting hurt in the same, losing faith in myself that made me quit and go to graduate school. Where I not only left with a degree but a new me.

It was brokenness that made me stop running from the only one who could save me. God has promises for the broken hearted. “He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.” The good news is that no matter the source of your heartbreak, God can repair your wounds.

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18.

“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:17).

“Every good gift and every perfect gift are from above, coming down from the father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change” (James 1:17).

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13). Don’t give up. Don’t quit too soon. Blessings!