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Bubblegum

What’s the story behind your nickname?

I had just been honorably discharged from the Air Force, December 1968. Two months later I was to start my undergraduate studies at Albany State College, now Albany State University.

At age 22 I could not see myself in a dormitory with 18 year olds, doing silly things. One reason why I did not pledge Greek.

The Dean of Student Affairs office posted a message that a lady had room for one more mature male student. Off campus sounded good.

When I went to visit her I told her my name. Three first names. I had a problem in the Air Force with them getting my last name mixed up with my middle name.

She said, “ I am not going to try to keep up with your name. Which one is first, middle, or last. I am just going to call you Bubblegum.”

Bubblegum was my nickname for three and a half years, until I graduated. It was blazoned on all of my text books. I called her “Sweet Pea”

She was a wonderful person. She taught me how to stop hating my mother, to loving my mother.

I Who Have Nothing

What personal belongings do you hold most dear?

I have been racking my brain, so to speak and I can’t think of a thing materialistic that I have that makes me feel that way. I once wanted an Izod sweater real bad but did not want to spend the money. So my sister-in-law bought it for me. I had worn it only once, but one cold night I had it on when I met a homeless man who said he was cold. I was not going to give him the item I wanted so badly and it was given to me. Then I remembered what my late brother-in-law told me when I was visiting him and I got my shirt wet. As he was giving me a dry shirt he said, “This is my favorite shirt, my sweetheart gave it to me.” So why are you giving it to me? “ A blessing only comes from a sacrifice.” I took the sweater off and gave it to the homeless man. He said, “Bless you.” It made me feel so good that I cried.

Child’s Dream

When you were five, what did you want to be when you grew up?

I wanted to drive big trucks. I lived near highway 27 in Florida. In the middle of an orange grove. I grew up with elderly parents and very few contacts with other children. I loved the sound of the big trucks at night with the changing of gears that were soothing to my ears. Thinking back, it may have been a symbol, an instrument, or vehicle to escape the loneliness I may have felt.

Stop Being Macho

What strategies do you use to maintain your health and well-being?

For the past twenty plus years I have had a Primary Doctor, Dentist, Dermatologist, Ear, Nose, Throat (ENT), Opthomologist, Podiatrist, Urologist, and Gastrointestinal Doctor. I visit them twice per year or when they suggest. I strive to follow their instructions. Yes I could lose a few more pounds. I am working on it. The things I can not change, I change how I feel about them. I try to do a good deed for someone else each day.