The chaos that we are experiencing now affects us all in one way or the other. The economic rainfall is very clear. However, the broken heartedness is not easily measured. It is hidden deep inside and may not be noticed unless it is manifested in some outward way, such as in a song.

“What Becomes of the Brokenhearted” is a hit single recorded by Jimmy Ruffin and released on Motown Records’ Soul label in the summer of 1966. It is a ballad, with lead singer Jimmy Ruffin, the elder brother of the late David Ruffin, one of the lead singers of the Temptations. He is re- calling the pain that befalls those who were jilted by romantic partners.

If you were to take the time to speak to some of the many homeless brothers and sisters that you encounter roaming the streets, instead of judging them harshly, this is how it started. They didn’t just wake up one day and decided to check out from society.

A world filled with love is a wonderful sight.

Being in love is one’s heart’s delight.

But that look of love isn’t on my face.

That enchanted feeling has been replaced.

To understand the psychological perspective on heartbreak, consider the following insights:

• It often leads to feelings of grief, loss, and sadness, akin to mourning.
• The brain’s reward system is affected, causing withdrawal-like symptoms.
• Coping strategies, such as social support and self-care, are crucial for healing.
• Time is a significant factor; emotional recovery can take longer than expected.
• Professional therapy can help individuals process their feelings and move forward.

To understand what scripture says about the brokenhearted, consider these key verses:

• Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
• Isaiah 61:1 – “He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives.”
• Matthew 11:28 – “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
• 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 – “God comforts us in all our troubles, so we can comfort others.”
• Psalm 147:3 – “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”

“There but for the grace of God go I.“ Often attributed to the 16^th century English reformer John Braford.