From An Essay on Criticism is one of the first major poems written by the English writer Alexander Pope, published in 1711.  The first time I heard it was used by C. E. Ford. When we were dating I heard it all of the time. I had dosed in high school Literature. The other quote was “My mistake and your error.” A half apology, if you will.

Admitting one’s error does not come easy for many, and will give a half apology and perhaps repeat it again with words such as, “Don’t be so thin skinned, or Do not take me serious”. Those who are genuinely sorry will look for ways to do it more appropriately.

Kamar Toffolo Work Relationships, lists 5 examples of apologies that will make saying “I’m Sorry” at work much easier: I will list four. One will be mine.

1. Say the words “I’m sorry.” Don’t dance around it. You don’t want your apology recipient to come away not knowing they were apologized to.
2. Be specific about what you’re apologizing for. Acknowledge what happened, what you did, and what damage you may have done.
3. Avoid justifications and obfuscations. The words “if and “but don’t belong in your apology, nor does pushing the blame off on someone or something else.
4. Show that you’ll avoid a repeat offense. Talk about what you’ll do differently next time and what actions you’re taking or going to take to help with the present situation.

Please forgive me for not being more cautious? Or please forgive me for my lack of sensitivity? Please forgive me for not being more selfless?  I have found out that the word forgive works for both children and adults. Yes, you are supposed to include children too. It shows a strength, not a weakness.

“Be perfect, therefore, as your Heavenly Father is perfect (Matthew 5:48).” However, the Word of God offers an opportunity for repentance and reconcilement if we have made poor choices in our life.

“A person who refuses to admit his/her mistakes can never be successful. But if that person confessed and forsakes those mistakes, another chance is given (Proverbs 28:13).”

In the disciple’s prayer, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your father will not forgive your sins (Matthew 6:9-14).”  This one is hardly ever mentioned, let alone printed. It backs up verse 12.

“Bless is the one whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered (Psalm 32:1).”