Hopelessness is the feeling that nothing can be done by anyone to make our situation better. We are so sure of it that we internalize it and might fail to ask anyone else for assistance. We might be victims of the following.

Focus. The ability to keep our attention fixed on our vision and goals. When we lose focus, we stop engaging in activities that give us a sense of purpose.

Amusements. Entertaining distractions that draw us away from our vision, and goals. They are fun but do not give us a sense of purpose. If we exercise moderation, they can serve as a “lighting rod” for relaxation and recharge.

Diversions. Meaningful activities that serve someone else’s vision and goal, but not our own. Because we get a warm and fuzzy feeling, we can be tempted to spend all out time accomplishing other people’s goals and neglect our own.

Sometimes we feel hopeless because we lose focus with the big picture. We put all our time and resources on one person, one experience, one goal that we think is essential. We forgot about the adage, “Don’t put all of your eggs in one basket.” Why, if we drop it, we risk the chance of all of them being broken at once.

For example, you struggle to attend a school that you were told you were sure to find a lucrative job right away when you graduated, but you found out that this was not the case. Thousands had been told the same thing. You missed the cut by one. They filled all positions in May, but you marched in June.

You find another job that you feel is exactly right for you because you have all the experiences that they sought. In fact, you were so good that you helped train some of the people who started after you. After you said they were ready, they received promotions. When it came time for yours, there was no one to speak for you.

Or you think that because you lost your job that you are hopeless—even though that job could not be essential for happiness since it was supposed to be temporary. Here again, you lost focus. Tunnel vision blinded you again. Let me remind you of some stellar advice from the Holy Bible.

Do not put your confidence in powerful people, there is no help for you there. (Psalm 146:3). Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and find rest for your souls.

Will you try Him today?